Thursday, February 27, 2014

Advice - Forgiveness - December 26, 2013

Anyone and Anything can be forgiven and saved. Don't leave yet, I know it sounds crazy, just hear me out, maybe you'll think the same, maybe not but let's see . Everyone has different lives, different experiences, but in the end everyone wants to better themselves, they want to survive and be the best they can be. In some shape or form this shows in their live, sometimes in good ways and sometimes in bad ways. Giving to charity, it warms the soul and publicly shows you have a good heart. Being power hungry though, it isn't the same, going after power.. but it is part of the human characteristic of wanting to survive and be the best you can be, because to some people that is what they call achievement, they had different experiences which led them to think that, it could be right and it could be wrong, but it's not something you can blame them, their conscious self, for.

What is Consciousness? Humans and other animals have emotions and the ability to make decisions based on what would be the best choice. The brain has been related to a computer, a computer which can take in inputs and choose the best output for the situation, though on a much more complex level. There is a difference though. But humans and animals make decisions which may not fit any criteria for being correct yet we choose to do them, even if it goes against our survival. Now this is in NO WAY a pass to do whatever you want, but an example of how humans and animals have a factor of unpredictability. That part, the unpredictability I believe to be conscious, it is what sets us apart form computers and every other model. It is the X-factor which explains the rest of the phenomena of human and animal behavior. Scientifically so far I don't think there is an explanation for that unpredictability, so it seems fitting to place that as consciousness.

Anyone can be forgiven, no matter what it is. It doesn't mean that you need to be happy about what they did or that you agreed with it, it just means that you have forgiven them. In many cases, people make mistakes, mistakes are the most common thing to make. If the person making a mistake considers it a mistake it means they don't think they should do it again and that it was bad. In turn you shouldn't blame them for what they did because knowing they made that mistake and wanting to fix it are reasons enough for them to be a good person. That consciousness, is a complex system but it takes in so much strain and it does its best to make the right decisions and sometimes messes up, it can't make the absolute right decisions all the time because that part isn't controlled by statistics, because if it was it couldn't account for the unpredictability of others and make the right decisions. And sometimes people don't realize they made a mistake and they don't want to fix it, it is just how they see things, and they can't help themselves for that, you can try to "change" that or "save" that but it is technically there is no directly right or wrong way, only the way which brings you the most happiness. I already talked about what way is the right path so I won't talk about that (for more information about that I strongly encourage you to check out the post).

Anyone can be saved, nothing is impossible if you put your mind to it, you just have to be able to keep forgiving and keep wanting to help after everything that happens no matter what, it will hurt and it would be extremely difficult and it may not happen but it is possible.

Why do these things? Why would you go through the pain of forgiving them? Because hatred is a plague to the soul. It can prejudice you and make you blind, it can cloud up your path to happiness. If you get rid of hatred then you can make room for all the good things and all the happiness which you deserve.

If you feel bad about yourself, forgive yourself, it may be the hardest thing in the world, but you can never improve if you don't forgive yourself.

(Disclaimer) Again I want to make clear that bad actions are still bad and there is no reason to think that bad actions (whatever your definition may be) are good. Forgiving doesn't make it right, it just shows the kindness of humanity and the happiness which is possible.

I hope I covered everything well  Be happy and safe and live life happily .

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